Results: IF: Wedding Edition
Published on 04/21/2025
IF you could go back in time to create your ideal wedding, or if you're still dreaming of the day, here are some important questions to ponder.

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1.
1.
If you could choose any live music, which instruments would you prefer?

Piano
44%
973 votes
Flute
9%
204 votes
Organ
10%
221 votes
Violin
20%
448 votes
Guitar
35%
759 votes
Trumpets
6%
131 votes
Drums
13%
284 votes
Xylophone
6%
128 votes
Other (please specify)
8%
170 votes
Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
---|---|---|
1.75% | 58 | |
Harp | 0.63% | 21 |
Na | 0.33% | 11 |
Saxophone | 0.30% | 10 |
n/a | 0.27% | 9 |
none | 0.18% | 6 |
Cello | 0.12% | 4 |
Saxaphone | 0.09% | 3 |
Sax | 0.09% | 3 |
Accordion | 0.09% | 3 |
bagpipes | 0.06% | 2 |
Fiddle | 0.03% | 1 |
string quartet | 0.03% | 1 |
DJ | 0.03% | 1 |
some others | 0.03% | 1 |
I wouldn't | 0.03% | 1 |
piob m r | 0.03% | 1 |
Not sure | 0.03% | 1 |
Not Applicable | 0.03% | 1 |
cd's | 0.03% | 1 |
Probably a mariachi band to go with accidental wedding in Mexico. | 0.03% | 1 |
Bass saxophone French horn slide trombone | 0.03% | 1 |
Nonr | 0.03% | 1 |
A SAXAPHONE | 0.03% | 1 |
no . | 0.03% | 1 |
Mumbo Gumbo, Louisiana Cajon music. My husband and I met at their concert in 1991 at the Palms in Davis and we tried to hire them for the wedding, but could not afford them in 1994. We had a nice DJ instead. | 0.03% | 1 |
The entire Mormon Tabernacle choir and I am Jewish, it would be memorable. | 0.03% | 1 |
Tambourine | 0.03% | 1 |
I wouldn't have music | 0.03% | 1 |
Violin | 0.03% | 1 |
Timphani, kazoo, oud, balalaika, doublle bassoon, sitar, digeridoo. marimba | 0.03% | 1 |
Depends | 0.03% | 1 |
saxophone! | 0.03% | 1 |
viola | 0.03% | 1 |
Synthesizer | 0.03% | 1 |
Band | 0.03% | 1 |
Zero music | 0.03% | 1 |
I never do all of above | 0.03% | 1 |
Bass guitar | 0.03% | 1 |
Mix them all together and create a band with lots of different music. | 0.03% | 1 |
Upright bass and vocalist | 0.03% | 1 |
banjo and mandolin | 0.03% | 1 |
Quartet ensemble | 0.03% | 1 |
none of the above | 0.03% | 1 |
None, save the money | 0.03% | 1 |
Live Band | 0.03% | 1 |
guitar | 0.03% | 1 |
a harp its makes really pretty music and its soothing to your soul | 0.03% | 1 |
creepy music | 0.03% | 1 |
Maybe all the above. | 0.03% | 1 |
Bagpipe | 0.03% | 1 |
2.
2.
Brides, if you had the option of a different color dress other than white, would you wear it and what color would it be?

No
16%
353 votes
Red
9%
198 votes
Orange
4%
87 votes
Yellow
5%
107 votes
Green
6%
125 votes
Blue
13%
291 votes
Purple
10%
220 votes
Pink
11%
234 votes
Black
5%
109 votes
Grey
2%
54 votes
Brown
1%
18 votes
Other (please specify)
3%
66 votes
Not Applicable
29%
634 votes
Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
---|---|---|
0.43% | 8 | |
Ivory | 0.38% | 7 |
Turquoise | 0.16% | 3 |
Beige | 0.16% | 3 |
Teal | 0.16% | 3 |
Blush | 0.11% | 2 |
Gold | 0.11% | 2 |
black | 0.11% | 2 |
Green with purple dots and yellow stripes | 0.05% | 1 |
burgendy | 0.05% | 1 |
Black and White Combo | 0.05% | 1 |
BEIGE OR CREAM | 0.05% | 1 |
I already had an option and I chose white. | 0.05% | 1 |
Pale Blue | 0.05% | 1 |
I am a man but brides should wear black so they can be prepared when the poor dumb shlub drops dead. | 0.05% | 1 |
for my first wedding I wore a gold shirt/with brown skirt (1975) and 2nd was a white dress with large orange/peach flowers(20090 | 0.05% | 1 |
cream | 0.05% | 1 |
off-white / ecru | 0.05% | 1 |
yes i would wear color, depends on season, decor, mood etc | 0.05% | 1 |
Blush or cream | 0.05% | 1 |
I never wore a dress | 0.05% | 1 |
Very pale champagne | 0.05% | 1 |
Champagne - and I DID wear that color | 0.05% | 1 |
peach | 0.05% | 1 |
Blue silver | 0.05% | 1 |
Lavender | 0.05% | 1 |
Nude | 0.05% | 1 |
PAINT IT BLACK | 0.05% | 1 |
wine | 0.05% | 1 |
ice blue | 0.05% | 1 |
Taupe | 0.05% | 1 |
Golden | 0.05% | 1 |
Halloweej costume on an Oct 31st Halloween wedding | 0.05% | 1 |
Depends on what I would be dressing for | 0.05% | 1 |
cream off white | 0.05% | 1 |
i'd stick with white. maybe red for the bridesmaids | 0.05% | 1 |
Gold or Silver | 0.05% | 1 |
floral | 0.05% | 1 |
Rose | 0.05% | 1 |
Original dress was not white | 0.05% | 1 |
ecru | 0.05% | 1 |
Silver | 0.05% | 1 |
light aqua | 0.05% | 1 |
Soft cream colour for redheads | 0.05% | 1 |
3.
3.
Grooms, it's been a longstanding tradition for the bride to walk down the aisle to a song, most popularly "Here Comes The Bride." But what about you? To what song would you want to walk to down the aisle?

n/a
0%
36 votes
None
0%
24 votes
NA
0%
18 votes
Not sure
0%
15 votes
Here comes the bride
0%
15 votes
same
0%
6 votes
At Last
0%
4 votes
no idea
0%
3 votes
The funeral march
0%
2 votes
don't know
0%
2 votes
Stand By Me
0%
2 votes
loving you
0%
2 votes
I will always love you
0%
2 votes
Here comes the groom
0%
2 votes
Je ne sais pas
0%
2 votes
yes
0%
2 votes
Unsure
0%
2 votes
Walk this way
0%
2 votes
Wedding March
0%
2 votes
I'll always love you
0%
2 votes
Perfect by Ed Sheeran
0%
2 votes
no comment
0%
2 votes
x
0%
2 votes
Anything by Journey if Steve Perry was there to sing it!
0%
1 votes
Eye of a tiger
0%
1 votes
the wind beneath my wings
0%
1 votes
Every Woman
0%
1 votes
a nice one
0%
1 votes
Free Bird
0%
1 votes
No
0%
1 votes
Don't Fear the Reaper
0%
1 votes
Carole King's song "It's too late."
0%
1 votes
"Love in any Language" by Sandy Patti
0%
1 votes
endless love
0%
1 votes
ZZ Top Sharp Dressed Man
0%
1 votes
Bride choice
0%
1 votes
Forever Young
0%
1 votes
Catherine the Great's entrance to the ball from the Opera Pique Dame (Queen of Spades).
0%
1 votes
Wings Beneath my feet
0%
1 votes
Let's Give Them Something To Talk About
0%
1 votes
"Gimme Chocolate" by BabyMetal
0%
1 votes
no clue
0%
1 votes
The ***** Is Back
0%
1 votes
Where comes the bride
0%
1 votes
Fur Elise
0%
1 votes
Too many to choose from
0%
1 votes
Here is the bride coming
0%
1 votes
that is fine
0%
1 votes
Pachelbel in D
0%
1 votes
BIu
0%
1 votes
Get this party started
0%
1 votes
It's a dream come true
0%
1 votes
Tiptoe Through the Tulips (Tiny Tim version)
0%
1 votes
Don't care
0%
1 votes
Lullaby by The Spill Canvas
0%
1 votes
True by Spandau Ballet
0%
1 votes
NOT SURE HERE COMES THE BRIDE
0%
1 votes
Let me down
0%
1 votes
I'm not sure, have to think about it.
0%
1 votes
the wedding song
0%
1 votes
Hoochie Coochie Man
0%
1 votes
Ava Maria
0%
1 votes
Who let the dogs out
0%
1 votes
I like the basic Wedding march. You only use it once. Hopefully.
0%
1 votes
death march
0%
1 votes
A LIVE VIOLIN.
0%
1 votes
summers day
0%
1 votes
I'm Bad, I'm Nationwide-ZZ Top
0%
1 votes
Release me
0%
1 votes
Make you feel like my love
0%
1 votes
crazy train
0%
1 votes
The Wizard by Black Sabbath
0%
1 votes
My Brown-Eyed Girl
0%
1 votes
Memory Lane
0%
1 votes
ode to joy
0%
1 votes
The Death March
0%
1 votes
Tonight's the Night by Rod Stewart.
0%
1 votes
I'll never be single again.
0%
1 votes
I will always love you.
0%
1 votes
Take this job and shove it
0%
1 votes
Que Sera Sera by The Pixies from the TV show FROM.
0%
1 votes
Desert Moon
0%
1 votes
Definitely NOT "Here Comes The Bride" (big, fat & wide)! Actually, my church's Choir Director and her husband the organist composed a brand NEW song for my wedding. Neither my husband nor I heard any music (and 56 years later we still have no idea what it sounded like). Story of our lives :)
0%
1 votes
Prince of Denmark march
0%
1 votes
Unchained Melody
0%
1 votes
Right Now
0%
1 votes
Highway to Hell, ACDC
0%
1 votes
One we pick
0%
1 votes
Beleave
0%
1 votes
I have always loved you
0%
1 votes
Help! by the Beatles
0%
1 votes
almost home
0%
1 votes
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0%
1 votes
pachabel canon in D
0%
1 votes
i think Here comes the bride would be best
0%
1 votes
Stop and think
0%
1 votes
anything else but that!
0%
1 votes
No thing
0%
1 votes
none other
0%
1 votes
Scotland the Brave
0%
1 votes
The last rose of summer.
0%
1 votes
not here comes the bride
0%
1 votes
theme from The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly
0%
1 votes
Going to the Chapel
0%
1 votes
Imagine
0%
1 votes
"l got a tear in my beer"
0%
1 votes
The Pachabel Canon and my sisters would play it on their violins
0%
1 votes
lipstick and leather
0%
1 votes
j
0%
1 votes
female
0%
1 votes
unknown
0%
1 votes
Not sure. Too many to ponder at this time.
0%
1 votes
"All of Me" By John Legend
0%
1 votes
Canon in D
0%
1 votes
Something
0%
1 votes
The Wedding March
0%
1 votes
Band of gold.
0%
1 votes
Mine was Moonlight Sonata and I'd choose it again.
0%
1 votes
never tear us apart
0%
1 votes
i don t have a idea
0%
1 votes
godzilla
0%
1 votes
Waiting for a girl like you by Foreigner
0%
1 votes
instrumental piano piece
0%
1 votes
Till There Was You/Beatles
0%
1 votes
Dreaming
0%
1 votes
RUNNING AGAINST THE WIND
0%
1 votes
My husband would probably choose something from the Grateful Dead or John Mayer.
0%
1 votes
Train kept a' rolling (by Dread Zeppelin)
0%
1 votes
Ok
0%
1 votes
Ready Teddy
0%
1 votes
nothing in particular
0%
1 votes
You sexy thing
0%
1 votes
A classic oldie
0%
1 votes
Don't kow
0%
1 votes
I am not sure
0%
1 votes
I want to be free by Queen
0%
1 votes
my father
0%
1 votes
turn the page
0%
1 votes
same one
0%
1 votes
spirit in the sky
0%
1 votes
My wife came down the isle to the hymn "Fairest Lord Jesus" and went out to the song "The Hills Are Alive With The Sound Of Music." she had never scene that movie till we started dating and is one of her favorites now.
0%
1 votes
Perfect by Edd Sheron
0%
1 votes
Things I Will Never Say by Avril Lavigne
0%
1 votes
Strangers in the Night
0%
1 votes
I'm a girl.
0%
1 votes
You light up my life
0%
1 votes
Not me
0%
1 votes
Iron Man - Black Sabbeth
0%
1 votes
Girls just want to have fun
0%
1 votes
Could I have this dance for the rest of my life, by Anne Murray
0%
1 votes
Walk through this world with me
0%
1 votes
Not that one.
0%
1 votes
there she goes
0%
1 votes
walking on sunshine
0%
1 votes
I don't know
0%
1 votes
We will be one
0%
1 votes
He Stopped Loving Her Today by George Jones
0%
1 votes
FAFO!
0%
1 votes
All My Life by K-Ci & Jo Jo
0%
1 votes
Wind Beneath Your Wings
0%
1 votes
Annie's song
0%
1 votes
Pachelbel's canon in D
0%
1 votes
You are my Sunshine
0%
1 votes
Butterfly kisses
0%
1 votes
I am female
0%
1 votes
Wedding song
0%
1 votes
fun and upbeat
0%
1 votes
Here Comes The Bride is the tradition for me.
0%
1 votes
Does not apply
0%
1 votes
aweszyrdhtj
0%
1 votes
nothing different.
0%
1 votes
Any song we like?
0%
1 votes
that song is fine
0%
1 votes
I am not a groom
0%
1 votes
Sade I'll be there
0%
1 votes
Wedding Day Bee Gees
0%
1 votes
Hallehuhia
0%
1 votes
now that we found love by heavy d and the boys
0%
1 votes
Sweat child of mine guns roses Or All I needed was you bret Micheal
0%
1 votes
Walked down to O Solo Mio on Violin
0%
1 votes
Angel Eyes by Jeff Healy
0%
1 votes
NOT.
0%
1 votes
Should I Stay Or Should I Go Now
0%
1 votes
total unknown
0%
1 votes
Nites in White Satan
0%
1 votes
Along the Ride/ Dan Fogelberg
0%
1 votes
"Blade of Grass" by Lady GaGa
0%
1 votes
I'm not sure at this point in time.
0%
1 votes
not really sure
0%
1 votes
You'll accompany me by Bob Seger
0%
1 votes
It's Raining Men
0%
1 votes
Can't help falling in love with you
0%
1 votes
No song.
0%
1 votes
Sans objet
0%
1 votes
Our Day Will Come
0%
1 votes
i do, i do, i do by ABBA
0%
1 votes
Once a bride - never a groom.
0%
1 votes
Walking down what aisle? Never got around to any of that stuff.
0%
1 votes
Natalie Cole - Wild Women Do
0%
1 votes
I would be the bride NA
0%
1 votes
i have no idea
0%
1 votes
Female here.
0%
1 votes
Paklbel
0%
1 votes
Not Applicable
0%
1 votes
I DO NOT KNOW
0%
1 votes
something by handel - name escapes me just now
0%
1 votes
White
0%
1 votes
The same
0%
1 votes
Ode to Joy or Canon in D
0%
1 votes
Not a groom, but I'd pick "Every Day Of My Life" by Aaron Neville (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9CBvL8fjyXU)
0%
1 votes
It's your love by Tim McGraw and Faith
0%
1 votes
I had a dream
0%
1 votes
never thought about it
0%
1 votes
to be me
0%
1 votes
Wedding Song by Bob Dylan
0%
1 votes
Not Here comes the Bride, big fat and wide. I would love to walk down the aisle to Enya
0%
1 votes
love
0%
1 votes
I Still Don't Know (Where I'm Going To).
0%
1 votes
I m not sure since I m a female I wouldn t have a clue
0%
1 votes
Steve Miller's Quicksilver Girl
0%
1 votes
magnet and steel
0%
1 votes
im fine with it
0%
1 votes
There goes the Champions
0%
1 votes
I'm a Believer!
0%
1 votes
Another one bits the dust
0%
1 votes
I'm so Exited
0%
1 votes
I
0%
1 votes
Help me Rhonda
0%
1 votes
celebrate! (kool & the gang)
0%
1 votes
Shine On You Crazy Diamond
0%
1 votes
My way
0%
1 votes
"Meet Me Halfway" by Kenny Loggins
0%
1 votes
Evergreen
0%
1 votes
Have no idea
0%
1 votes
Sharp dressed man
0%
1 votes
"Everyday Sunshine"
0%
1 votes
This is the bride and I walked into Pacabel, Cannon in D We had both agreed upon this before the wedding in 1994.
0%
1 votes
The mourners prayer
0%
1 votes
Revolution the Beatles
0%
1 votes
Happy
0%
1 votes
heaven is a place on earth
0%
1 votes
Diamonds is a beautiful song to walk down the aisle to for my child I'm already married.
0%
1 votes
Sound of silence by Disturbed or Down with the sickness
0%
1 votes
In the Air Tonight by Phil Collins
0%
1 votes
"Heart of Courage" by Two Steps From Hell
0%
1 votes
Not sure which other song, but not that one!!
0%
1 votes
White Wedding by Billy Idol
0%
1 votes
whatever
0%
1 votes
Luther vandross supetstar
0%
1 votes
Staying alive.
0%
1 votes
traditional
0%
1 votes
I walked down the aisle to "Order My Steps"
0%
1 votes
Neon moon
0%
1 votes
If
0%
1 votes
zippy do dah
0%
1 votes
une chanson d'amour est dans mon coeur
0%
1 votes
O my dear!
0%
1 votes
N/A; I'm female
0%
1 votes
The hawaiian wedding song
0%
1 votes
" Another one bites the dust" LOL
0%
1 votes
I really don't care.
0%
1 votes
The Goodness of God
0%
1 votes
.
0%
1 votes
Going Down To Boston
0%
1 votes
ok, not bad
0%
1 votes
Wind Beneath My Wings
0%
1 votes
"Ada" by The National
0%
1 votes
I walked down the aisle to a Celine Dion song.
0%
1 votes
4.
4.
What would be an ideal venue?

Church
27%
593 votes
Park
19%
426 votes
Zoo
7%
150 votes
Your Own Backyard
18%
390 votes
Outdoor Theater
6%
135 votes
Exotic Location in a Foreign Country
16%
346 votes
Other (please specify)
7%
160 votes
Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
---|---|---|
2.59% | 57 | |
Beach | 0.86% | 19 |
Na | 0.50% | 11 |
N/A | 0.41% | 9 |
Synagogue | 0.09% | 2 |
None | 0.09% | 2 |
Renaissance festival | 0.05% | 1 |
Lawyers Office. | 0.05% | 1 |
Baseball field | 0.05% | 1 |
Scenic Outdoor Spot | 0.05% | 1 |
no idea | 0.05% | 1 |
On a private yacht | 0.05% | 1 |
The Ritz Carlton Beach Front Half Moon Bay Ca. | 0.05% | 1 |
In front of a very Mayan-looking Justice of the Peace along with about 4 or 5 employees from the civic building. | 0.05% | 1 |
Beach,shopping mall | 0.05% | 1 |
local bar | 0.05% | 1 |
I will never marry, not for me. | 0.05% | 1 |
Another gazebo in our backyard | 0.05% | 1 |
Not sure | 0.05% | 1 |
Just a local party room | 0.05% | 1 |
Landfill | 0.05% | 1 |
local botanic garden | 0.05% | 1 |
Pastoral | 0.05% | 1 |
court house | 0.05% | 1 |
A beach | 0.05% | 1 |
Auditorium | 0.05% | 1 |
not interested | 0.05% | 1 |
Bogart and Bacall | 0.05% | 1 |
Forest Lawn Cemetery in Glendale, Michael Jackson and Elizabeth Taylor among others are buried there | 0.05% | 1 |
A Castle would be a great venue. | 0.05% | 1 |
Planet Claire | 0.05% | 1 |
lake | 0.05% | 1 |
By the ocean | 0.05% | 1 |
Home | 0.05% | 1 |
The Beach | 0.05% | 1 |
Indoor theater | 0.05% | 1 |
not applicable | 0.05% | 1 |
Outdoor | 0.05% | 1 |
Small garden venue | 0.05% | 1 |
Nowhere (don't get married!) | 0.05% | 1 |
no specifier | 0.05% | 1 |
BOTANIC GARDEN | 0.05% | 1 |
Thai resort | 0.05% | 1 |
Conservatory as in greenhouse | 0.05% | 1 |
Outer Space | 0.05% | 1 |
Golf course | 0.05% | 1 |
Some place known to us. | 0.05% | 1 |
anywhere with my love | 0.05% | 1 |
Graveyard | 0.05% | 1 |
Outdoors at restaurant wedding venue | 0.05% | 1 |
A progressie ceremony going thruogh several venues, e nding in church | 0.05% | 1 |
another one bites the dust | 0.05% | 1 |
Lakeside | 0.05% | 1 |
Cruise Ship | 0.05% | 1 |
A hunted house | 0.05% | 1 |
I don't know | 0.05% | 1 |
Cool art deco theater | 0.05% | 1 |
winery | 0.05% | 1 |
Carlsbad Caverns | 0.05% | 1 |
The ocean | 0.05% | 1 |
an arboretum | 0.05% | 1 |
nothing comes to mind | 0.05% | 1 |
an ocean beach--preferably back home | 0.05% | 1 |
On a lake | 0.05% | 1 |
B &B | 0.05% | 1 |
does a venue matter as long as your both happy | 0.05% | 1 |
5.
5.
And when it's all been said and done, what would be your ride after the ceremony?

My own car
24%
530 votes
Limo
31%
681 votes
Horse and carriage
27%
597 votes
Airplane
6%
122 votes
Boat
6%
142 votes
Other (please specify)
6%
128 votes
Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
---|---|---|
2.77% | 61 | |
N/A | 0.50% | 11 |
Na | 0.50% | 11 |
Motorcycle | 0.14% | 3 |
Harley | 0.09% | 2 |
none | 0.09% | 2 |
covette | 0.05% | 1 |
Yacht | 0.05% | 1 |
Not Applicable | 0.05% | 1 |
We'd walk back home, or else my wheelchair. | 0.05% | 1 |
Take the bus down to the beach and finish the swim that we intended to go to before we stopped in and got married. | 0.05% | 1 |
A vintage Rolls Royce :)) | 0.05% | 1 |
stingray | 0.05% | 1 |
classic car | 0.05% | 1 |
Walk in the park | 0.05% | 1 |
nothing | 0.05% | 1 |
We had a classic car from the Town Ford Museum take us to the B&B downtown after the ceremony. | 0.05% | 1 |
A hearse | 0.05% | 1 |
Tricycle | 0.05% | 1 |
Tandem bicycle | 0.05% | 1 |
Covered wagon | 0.05% | 1 |
Corvette | 0.05% | 1 |
Muscle car | 0.05% | 1 |
vintage roadster | 0.05% | 1 |
a classic car | 0.05% | 1 |
My tractor | 0.05% | 1 |
Nothing (don't get married!) | 0.05% | 1 |
1973 Plymouth Duster with 318 ci and 3-spd om the floor. | 0.05% | 1 |
Helicopter | 0.05% | 1 |
Train | 0.05% | 1 |
Family or friends vehicle | 0.05% | 1 |
The Bride's Maid | 0.05% | 1 |
My bride and I would, ideally, teleport to the place of our honeymoon, our luggage in hand | 0.05% | 1 |
Same Cruise Ship | 0.05% | 1 |
A hearse. | 0.05% | 1 |
1956 Studebaker Golden Hawk | 0.05% | 1 |
Walking | 0.05% | 1 |
Vintage car | 0.05% | 1 |
Elephant | 0.05% | 1 |
Je ne sais pas | 0.05% | 1 |
utv | 0.05% | 1 |
Roller Skates | 0.05% | 1 |
used my sisters car | 0.05% | 1 |
Cool rental car maybe | 0.05% | 1 |
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